WHAT IS BPD?
Treatment Options for Borderline Personality Disorder
Finding the proper treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) can feel overwhelming, especially given the wide range of therapies that claim to help. While many approaches exist, not all are supported by strong scientific evidence. Knowing which treatments are most effective—and why—can inform decisions, reduce frustration, and avoid unnecessary detours in care. Our goal is to provide realistic hope, practical information, and a clear, supportive understanding of available treatment options so individuals and families can choose the path that best fits their needs.
What the Research Shows
Over the past several decades, research has transformed how BPD is understood and treated. Once considered difficult or even untreatable, BPD is now known to respond well to specific, structured, evidence-based psychotherapies. Long-term studies show that many people experience meaningful improvements, particularly when treatment targets the core features of BPD.
KEY TAKEWAY
With treatment and support, recovery is possible. Though BPD was once considered untreatable, current research shows that evidence-based therapies like DBT, MBT, and SFT can lead to a reduction of symptoms and even remission. In addition to individual therapy, social and family support—such as the family education in our Family Connections™ programs—offer significant contributions to recovery.
Here, you will find information about:
Therapies with strong or modest research support, including
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT)
- Schema-Focused Therapy
- Treatments with limited or mixed evidence
- The role of medication as a supportive tool
- What to look for when choosing a provider
Research consistently shows that effective treatment can lead to:
- Reduced emotional intensity and reactivity
- Fewer impulsive or self-harming behaviors
- More stable and satisfying relationships
- Improved daily functioning and quality of life
Recovery is possible, offering real hope and reassurance to individuals and families seeking effective care.
Recovery is a Realistic Goal
BPD is not a life sentence. With evidence-based therapies, consistent support, and a compassionate therapeutic environment, many people with BPD not only improve, but can go on to live fulfilling, meaningful lives. Improvement does not mean all symptoms disappear, but rather that:
- The person learns to manage emotional instability.
- Self-harming or impulsive behaviors are reduced or eliminated.
- Interpersonal relationships and daily functioning improve.
- Life satisfaction and identity stability increase.
Recovery is not only possible—it is probable with the right approach.
Support Systems Enhance Recovery
In addition to formal therapy, social and family support play an important role in recovery.
- Psychoeducation for families (e.g., our Family Connections™ programs) helps relatives understand BPD and respond more effectively.
- Peer support and group therapy provide validation, reduce isolation, and encourage skill use in real-life situations.
There is not much useful support out there for parents who are dealing with a child in crisis. It is exhausting, isolating, and often causes parents to experience their own mental health issues. … I felt overwhelmed and fearful that our child and family would be stuck in a cycle of dysregulation and pain. Learning that there are evidence-based approaches that we can utilize … has been so helpful. I am feeling optimistic for both my child and our family. – HH, Florida
The McLean Study of Adult Development (Zanarini et al., 2010), a landmark longitudinal study, found that:
85%
of clients with BPD remitted (no longer met diagnostic criteria) after 10 years, and
50%
remained in recovery (defined as remission plus good psychosocial functioning).
Treatment Options for BPD
The most recent version of the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) defines BPD as a mental health condition characterized by persistent patterns of emotional, relational, and behavioral instability.
An Evidence-Based Approach
In mental health treatment, research provides an important guide. Evidence-based treatments are therapies that have been carefully studied and proven to help many people with BPD. By focusing on these treatments, we help reduce frustration and misinformation.
It’s important to know, BPD Alliance does not create or test these treatments ourselves. We rely on expert reviews, such as those conducted by the American Psychological Association’s Division 12 and our Scientific Advisory Board, which evaluates therapies based on established scientific standards.
A treatment is said to have “strong” research support if multiple well-designed studies, carried out by independent researchers, consistently show that it works.
A treatment is said to have “modest” research support if there is at least one strong study, or two or more reasonably solid studies, showing that it works. Both “strong” and “modest” levels of support can also be shown through a series of carefully run single-case studies.
A treatment is said to have “no research support” if there are no reliable studies showing that it works. This means its effectiveness has not yet been proven by scientific evidence.
Finally, research support is labeled “controversial” if studies give conflicting results, or if the treatment clearly helps but the explanation for why it works doesn’t match the research evidence.
Treatments With Strong and Modest Evidence
According to APA’s Society for Clinical Psychology (Division 12), based on current research (according to), the following psychotherapies are most supported for BPD:
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Mentalization Based Therapy (MBT)
- Schema Based Therapy
DBT is structured around four main skill areas:
- Mindfulness promotes present-moment awareness
- Distress tolerance helps with crisis management
- Emotion regulation provides strategies to better control emotional responses
- Interpersonal effectiveness builds healthy communication and relationship skills
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
DBT is a type of cognitive behavioral therapy that was developed specifically to treat individuals with borderline personality disorder (BPD). It focuses on helping people regulate their emotions, tolerate distress, and improve interpersonal relationships.
The word “dialectical” refers to the balance between acceptance and change—two key principles at the core of DBT. Therapists using DBT work with clients to validate their feelings and experiences while also encouraging strategies that promote positive behavioral changes. This combination helps individuals better cope with intense emotions and reduce harmful behaviors like self-injury or substance abuse.
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DBT was developed by psychology Marsha Linehan in the 1980s. While it is most well-known for treating BPD, it has also been adapted to help with depression, eating disorders, substance use, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Its structured, skills-based approach and emphasis on both acceptance and change make it a powerful tool for building resilience and improving mental health.
Features of DBT
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- It is the most widely available evidence-based treatment for BPD in the US.
- Comprehensive DBT involves five key parts:
- Weekly individual therapy (typically 45-60 minutes):
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- Sessions are structured with the use of a Diary Card to ensure that the client’s targets are being addressed.
- Ensure that the individual therapist has received intensive DBT training or is a DBT-LBC, Certified Clinician™ or supervised by someone who has been intensively trained or is a DBT-LBC, Certified Clinician™.
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- Weekly DBT skills training group (2 hours):
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- The group is educational in nature, not a processing group. New material is taught, and weekly homework is reviewed.
- For Adult DBT, research indicates that outcomes for adult clients are best if they complete 2 full cycles of the program’s skills training curriculum.
- For Adolescent DBT, the group is typically a Multi-Family Group where the client and caregivers attend together.
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- Between-session phone coaching helps the client use skills in daily life and avoid higher levels of care.
- DBT therapists participate in a weekly Clinician Consultation Team meeting with other DBT-trained therapists to improve efficacy.
- Family and/or school Involvement
- Weekly individual therapy (typically 45-60 minutes):
- Best outcomes are linked to a comprehensive DBT program including all five components.
- Skills-only DBT is separate from comprehensive DBT, and may help with less severe problems.
Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT)
MBT was also developed specifically to help individuals with BPD. Its foundation lies in the concept of mentalizing—the process by which we make sense of ourselves and others, both implicitly and explicitly, in terms of thoughts, feelings, intentions, and other subjective states.
Clients with BPD often have reduced capacities to mentalize, particularly during times of stress or in close relationships. This can lead to difficulty regulating emotions, managing impulsivity, and navigating interpersonal interactions. MBT is a structured, time-limited treatment that combines individual and group therapy sessions to strengthen clients’ ability to mentalize.
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MBT was developed by psychologists Peter Fonagy and Anthony Bateman.
Rather than focusing solely on symptom reduction, the therapy emphasizes slowing down, reflecting on mental states, and considering multiple perspectives before reacting. By developing these reflective capacities, patients become better equipped to regulate intense emotions, reduce impulsive and self-destructive behaviors, and form more stable, trusting relationships. Research has shown that MBT can reduce hospitalizations, improve emotional stability, and foster long-term recovery, making it a highly effective, compassionate treatment for BPD.
Features of MBT
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- Focuses on improving the ability to understand one’s own thoughts and feelings and those of others.
- Solid evidence of effectiveness exists for adults; there is growing evidence for youth.
- Availability in the U.S. is limited; it is more common in Europe and other countries.
Schema-Focused Therapy (SFT)
SFT is an integrative approach, originally grounded in cognitive behavioral therapy and expanded to include concepts and techniques from other therapies. The central focus is on early maladaptive schemas—the deeply rooted beliefs and emotional patterns we naturally develop as we age. For many people with BPD, these schemas revolve around themes like abandonment, defectiveness, emotional deprivation, and mistrust. These internal “rules” may have once helped the child survive difficult circumstances, but in adulthood they create ongoing cycles of emotional pain and self-defeating behaviors.
SFT’s difference is its goal of not just managing symptoms in the moment, but healing the deeper wounds that fuel them. The therapy works to weaken harmful schemas, develop healthier ones, and replace old survival patterns with more adaptive ways of living.
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Therapists use a wide range of tools: cognitive techniques to challenge distorted thinking, experiential exercises such as imagery and “chair work” to process emotions, and behavioral pattern-breaking to encourage new responses. The therapeutic relationship itself is also central—offering a safe, consistent space where healthy attachment and boundaries can be experienced directly.
SFT places strong emphasis on the client’s daily life and relationships while also addressing the traumatic childhood experiences that are common in BPD. Treatment is typically a long-term commitment, often lasting several years rather than months. This extended timeframe allows for the deep psychological restructuring needed to create real and lasting change.
Features of SFT
- Combines elements of cognitive, behavioral, and psychodynamic approaches.
- Strong research support in Europe; limited availability in the U.S.
- Particularly effective when delivered in structured, long-term programs.
Treatments With Strong and Modest Evidence
According to the APA Practice Guideline for the Treatment of Patients with BPD, some therapies are sometimes mentioned for BPD, though current research does not provide strong support.
Transference-Focused Psychotherapy (TFP)
Evidence on the effectiveness of TFP is mixed, and it is rarely available outside a few U.S. cities.
TFP focuses on revealing the underlying causes of a client’s BPD and working to build new, healthier ways for the client to think and behave. From the perspective of TFP, the client’s perceptions of self and of others are split into unrealistic extremes of bad and good. These conflicting dyads are thought to be expressed through the specific self-destructive symptoms of BPD. The term “transference” refers to the client’s experience of his or her moment-to-moment relationship with the therapist. The treatment focuses on transference because it is believed that clients will display their unhealthy dyadic perceptions not only in day-to-day life, but also in the interactions they have with their therapist. TFP focuses on using client-therapist communications to help the client integrate these different representations of self and, in the process, develop better methods of self-control.
General Psychiatric Management aka Good Psychiatric Management (GPM)
General Psychiatric Management, also called Good Psychiatric Management (GPM) is a generalist and practical model that can be learned by a wide range of clinicians, including psychiatrists, primary care providers, nurse practitioners, and other mental health professionals. It can be used across outpatient, inpatient, and emergency settings, expanding access to informed and effective care.
At the core of GPM is a focus on interpersonal sensitivity—how emotional distress and behavioral reactions are often triggered by stress in relationships. Clinicians help patients connect emotions and behaviors to relational stressors while incorporating education, practical problem-solving, realistic goal setting, and support for improving daily functioning and stability.
At the heart of GPM are several evidence-based principles that guide treatment. GPM is grounded in the understanding that recovery does not require the same level of intensity for everyone; many people benefit most from consistent, well-informed, and “good enough” care delivered over time. Central to this approach is a focus on relationships, as emotional distress and impulsive behaviors are often triggered by interpersonal stress, perceived rejection, or fears of abandonment. By helping patients understand and respond more effectively to these relational triggers, GPM supports meaningful and lasting change.
GPM keeps attention on the patient’s life outside of therapy. Treatment emphasizes practical support through case management, including assistance with housing, work, insurance, and daily structure. GPM prioritizes engagement in meaningful activities such as employment, education, volunteering, and consistent routines, following the principle of “work before love.” Patients are encouraged to take an active role in their treatment and assume responsibility for their safety and quality of life, while still receiving consistent clinician support. The approach is flexible, allowing clinicians to integrate helpful elements from other evidence-based treatments, such as CBT strategies, DBT skills, or peer support, based on the individual patient’s needs.
Ketamine, IFS, and EMDR for BPD
Current research is not robust enough to support ketamine, Internal Family Systems (IFS), or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) as primary or stand-alone treatments for Borderline Personality Disorder. While emerging studies and clinical reports suggest these approaches may offer benefits for other mental health conditions—such as treatment-resistant depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, or complex trauma—there is insufficient evidence to conclude that they reliably address the core features of BPD itself.
That said, many individuals with BPD experience co-occurring conditions for which these treatments may be appropriate and helpful when used within a comprehensive treatment plan. In such cases, they are best viewed as adjunctive or supportive interventions rather than replacements for evidence-based BPD treatments.
Because of the current limits of the scientific literature and a commitment to minimizing frustration and cost for those seeking care, we have chosen not to include these approaches on our core list of recommended treatments for BPD at this time. As the evidence evolves, these treatment methods may warrant reconsideration, but for now, our recommendations prioritize treatments with the strongest and most consistent empirical support.
What About “Treatment as Usual”?
In many communities, evidence-based treatments may not be available. In these cases, people may receive more general therapy—sometimes called treatment as usual. Treatment as Usual (TAU) represents the conventional mental health care available to individuals with BPD, typically lacking the structure and targeted approach of evidence-based therapies. While TAU can provide essential support and stabilization, research shows that when clinicians have deep experience working with BPD, outcomes are often much better than with therapists who are unfamiliar with these challenges.
If DBT, MBT, or Schema Therapy is not available, it is reasonable to seek out an experienced clinician and ask:
- How many people with BPD have you worked with?
- What outcomes do your clients with BPD typically experience after a year of treatment?
These simple questions can help identify therapists who may be a good fit, even if they are not trained in one of the major evidence-based models.
The Role of Medication for BPD
There is currently no medication approved specifically for BPD. Medications are sometimes prescribed to address related problems such as depression, anxiety, ADHD, or sleep difficulties.
- When medication is used, it is usually targeted at specific symptoms rather than BPD as a whole.
- If a medicine doesn’t help, best practice is to discontinue it before trying something else.
- Medications should be viewed as supports, not cures.
Finding a Mental Health Professional or Facility for BPD
Recovering from BPD can be challenging, and the right therapist or treatment program can make a big difference. The right therapist—someone you can trust to talk about painful emotions, difficult memories, and personal struggles, who is familiar with BPD and trained in evidence-based treatment methods—will be your partner in recovery. Take your time, ask questions, and even meet with a few therapists before choosing the right one.
When selecting a therapist:
- You are allowed to ask questions—this is your care, and you deserve to know.
- You are allowed to switch providers if the fit isn’t right.
- You deserve respect, compassion, and evidence-based care.
What to Look For in a Therapist
Experience: Choose a therapist who is specifically trained in treating BPD or related issues like trauma, attachment difficulties, and emotional regulation.
Treatment approach: Many therapists use a mix of methods. Ask how they work with people who have BPD and why they believe in that approach.
Licensing and credentials: Be sure your therapist is licensed, and look them up with your state licensing board to be sure they’re in good standing.
Compassionate, trained care: Care that is consistent, validating, skills-based, and grounded in clear treatment principles can reduce shame, stabilize crises, and build long-term recovery pathways.
Trust your instincts: Even if the therapist looks great on paper, the connection matters most. You should feel respected, understood, and cared for—not judged, pressured, or dismissed.
Learn more about finding a good therapeutic match
Compassionate, trained care is not “extra” for BPD—it is central. Trained care typically includes:
- understanding BPD through emotion dysregulation and attachment-informed frameworks
- maintaining a steady, non-punitive therapeutic stance
- using evidence-based approaches and structured risk management
- treating self-harm/suicidality as signals of distress (not moral failures)
- addressing co-occurring problems without losing the central pattern
An effective care approach typically includes:
- Skills development for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness, and mindfulness
- Treatment structures that reduce crisis cycling and strengthen continuity
- A coherent case formulation that keeps emotion dysregulation at the center
- Care coordination when co-occurring conditions exist (substance use, eating disorders, trauma symptoms)
- A validating stance that reduces shame and increases engagement
Outcomes are best when treatment directly addresses the core mechanisms of BPD, particularly chronic emotion dysregulation. Approaches that focus only on managing surface behaviors without targeting underlying emotional processes tend to be less effective over time.
Structured, skills-based therapies that explicitly teach emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness are associated with stronger and more durable improvements.